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#WhyIStayed

#WhyIStayed and #WhyTheyStayed are posts about domestic violence and the many reasons we tell ourselves not to leave abusive partners. This is about taking back power and agency in moments of abuse. #WhyIStayed Because you don’t abandon someone you love – especially when they are sick. Because I said I would never leave him. Because […]

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Respect Yourself, Protect Yourself

I got a message from someone asking about safer sex and her rights as a young woman. She asked about birth control, safer sex, and her ability to demand protection with her partner. May all of my sisters and brothers out there hear this message loud and clear. _______ You have the right to make […]

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Why Should Fluid-Bonded Couples Use Safer Sex at Public Parties?

I acknowledge that this is a topic that evokes a LOT of emotion in the community. This writing is based on my experience and knowledge as a health care provider, sexuality educator, and community member for over 15 years. These are MY OPINIONS. By all means, take my advice or leave it… As so many […]

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UPDATED: STI Testing Recommendations for Sex Positive Community

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On my other post, STDs in Sex-Positive Community: Examining Stigma and Safer Sex Practices (which was cross-posted to Fetlife), I was asked about testing and my personal recommendations. In order to make this information easily accessible, I wanted to post this as a separate thread: Here is a list of of known STIs and how they can […]

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STDs in Sex-Positive Community: Examining Stigma and Safer Sex Practices

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A prominent sex-positive organization’s LinkedIn profile recently posted a call out for a group seeking to establish an intentional living community in Arizona.  When I noticed they excluded membership on the basis of STD-positivity, I responded expressing my disappointment and frustration with the policy.  I received the following response from the gentleman who initially posted […]

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