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Workshops & Special Events


Here is a sampling of presentation topics I am able to speak on:

Bucking the Binary
Have you been hearing words like “Queer”, “Pansexual”, “Genderqueer”, “Transgender” and wished you could ask what they mean without offending someone? Want to explore the concepts of sex, gender, and orientation in a safe-space where the only wrong question is the one not asked? Whether you left the binary behind years ago or are curious about learning (but were too afraid to ask), come join us as we delve into the grey in this judgment-free workshop about gender, orientation and living in the undefined.

Communing with the Sacred: Sacred Sex and Pleasure
Throughout ages, sex has been considered sacred, offering seekers a way to include their physical bodies into spiritual practice. Whether embodying the aspects of primal power, Shiva and Shakti in Tantra, the sacred whore, or taking on the traits of other deities/archetypes, sacred sex can open us to all centers at once, animal to divine. Join us as we explore ways to commune with others through eye gazing, breath, sensual and intentional touch, trance, invocation, and more.

Dark Role Play
We have been “playing pretend” since we were young… but the realm of kinky sexuality opens up all new directions role playing can take.  Join us as we explore the shadowy realms of our fantasies and roles we can try on: abduction, abuse, torture, snuff, fantastical realms and anywhere else our twisted minds can dream up.  We will discuss the joys and challenges of playing in our closet, how to make it happen, why it turns us on, how to bring it up to our partners, negotiating our desires and troubleshooting the challenges this stuff can bring up.

Domestic Service – A Practicum
Looking to develop skills to serve your dominant in the home? Have a submissive or house servant that you’d like to have serve you better? This hands-on practical workshop will teach essential domestic service skills to make any dominant’s household sparkle and run with ease!

For the Love of Leather: Bootblacking & Leather Care
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I’m Here… Now What?! How to make friends and have fun!
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Foundations in Submission and Bottoming: Skillsets for Bottoms By a Bottom
In a scene that often focuses on the top and mastery of technique, the bottom and the essential skills for navigating the scene and relationships is often overlooked. This safe-space workshop will focus on role types and dynamics, networking, negotiation, knowing how to ask for what we want, discussing turn-ons and limits, safety, and more. *Open to bottoms & switches only.

Let it Flow: Playing With Water Sports
From sexy and sensuous to downright dirty, people do water sports for all sorts of reasons. Whether it’s the humiliation of being pissed on or forced to pee in one’s clothing, to the feeling of submission or intimacy of being covered in a lover’s body fluids, the reasons why can be as diverse as the ways how. We’ll be looking into psychology, health, tips on how to get more recycled water… and explore ways to incorporate this delightfully taboo body fluid into play!

Marking the Journey: Ordeal Ritual BDSM with Intention
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For Science!: Mad Scientists, Doctors, & Nurses
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Never Gonna Grow Up!: Adventures in Age Play
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Playing with Others: A Survival Guide for Couples
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Poke Me!: A Needle Play Primer for Beginners
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Puppies, Ponies, & Kitties… Oh My!: Explorations in Animal Role Play
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Never Say Never – Exploring boundaries and limits
Whether we’ve been in the “scene” for a day or a decade, each of us must decide the limits and bounds for our play. Top or bottom, dominant or submissive, poly or non-monogamous, each of us draws lines in the sand. In this judgment-free class, we will discuss personal hard and soft limits, the reasons why we choose them, and examine how time and experience may cause them to ebb and flow. We will also examine negotiating limits in various contexts for casual play, relationships, and more!

Queer Sex
For some, the binaries of male/female and gay/straight don’t fit. Identifying as, or finding ourselves attracted to, persons not following traditional gender expression can place us in unfamiliar territory. What do our identities and attractions mean about us? How can we approach our lovers with sensitivity? Building on our understanding of sex, gender and orientation, come join us for an open-minded discussion about how queer identity can affect our sex and relationships.

Sacred Androgyne: Walking Between the Worlds
Across the ages, the path of the sacred androgyne has been revered as sacred. Transgender and intersex peoples in cultures across the globe have been seen as mythical and spiritual people with the ability to walk between the worlds. From the two-spirit of Native American tribes and gallae priest/esses of Cybele, to the myths of Lilith, Baphomet, and the Kurgarra and Galatur, the path of the sacred androgyne can help us along our journey through alternate expressions of gender and sexuality. This workshop will explore various figures in myth and history, as well as contemporary paths of spirituality for those outside the binary.

Safer Sex Made Sexy:  A SEXploratorium
Ready to explore the world of infinite love and sex but want tips on how to do it safely? Already using safer sex practices but looking for tips to make it less stressful, more fun, and seemingly seamless? In this no-judgments class, we’ll discuss (and even try practicing with our clothes still on) how to make safer sex sexy, while sharing some of the health concerns that have us want to play in a safer way. We will expand our definitions of sex, reengineer the role that barriers play, and explore techniques and strategies to keep you and your partners health and happy – no matter what kinds of hot, steamy action you enjoy!

So You Want to Be a Slut?… Survival Tips on How to Do it Safely, Sanely, and just have fun!
Want more freedom, sex, excitement, intimacy, and connection in your life and relationships? Interested in exploring more sexual partners or opening up a current relationship but don’t know where to start? Curious about polyamory and/or swinging but don’t know how to talk about it with your partner(s)? Come and explore alternative sexual relationships and avenues of loving and relating… and walk away with skills for venturing into the world of unlimited love and pleasure.

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Special Events

Have a hole? We’ll fill it! Whether you’re an experienced fistee ready to open wide and swallow a fist or a curious but nervous newbie anxious to experiment, come and join us for a hot and fun time! Looking to lend a hand? Small hands or large, it doesn’t matter – come and join us for an exciting time! We can’t make any promises, but we’ll do our best to pair you up with a hole looking for an introduction! Join us for the fun – all genders welcome! Come with a partner or we’ll find you one! We will be providing mats and slings, water-based glycerin-free lube, gloves (latex & latex-free in assorted sizes), chucks, and condoms (for toys)!

Metamorphosis: A Transformational Journey from Chrysalis to Flight
The butterfly is a powerful symbol of change and transformation. The journey from caterpillar to butterfly is reflective of our cycles of expansion and growth, as well as the beauty of life’s continuous unfolding. Join us as we embark on a journey of reflection, self-awareness, and transformation so that a new you can emerge!

Safer Sex Orgy
In this hot and sexy group sex event, we’ll be putting to practice all of the safer sex savvy skills that we learned in the “Safer Sex Made Sexy SEXploratorium”! Come and join other sex-positive and safer-sex savvy players for an orgy of health-conscious passion and pleasure! Bring toys, play partners, and a sense of adventure! Please Note: Barriers must be used for all oral and penetrative sex acts – no exceptions!

Temptation in the Garden of Eden: A Sensual Feast 
Give in to passion and pleasure in this feast celebrating the senses and the connection to the sacred within and outside ourselves. Lavish yourself in carnal delights and awaken the hedonist within as you dine on decadent fruit and sweets. Open up your body and mind and allow others to feed you in this sensual feast indulging in the pleasures of the flesh.

Splish Splosh – Let’s Get Messy!
Whether you want to be silly and act out your favorite 3 Stooges moment, crave the squish of pudding and cake against your skin, or just want to watch sexy people roll around in food, come join us as we get wet and messy! Participation encouraged – voyeurs welcome! Please be hygienically savvy before joining the wet and messy pile. Thanks!